Ok, back to work
- Opened today's mail which was a bank statement (Yay, info for an account I didn't have info for! Money exists!) and an invoice for the furnace service last monday (nothing owed, yay) and found a few more sympathy cards (thankyou)
- Called Lawyer again about what to do for next steps. Left message. Sent email.
- Called paindoc re whether he'd be willing to sign off on handicapped parking forms. (Then DL from DMV and get him to fill out, if he's ok with it.)
- Called town hall Of COURSE sewer is late. $155.32 to bring it current. Can pay next week. Also, bring death cert, talk to Tax Assessor's office, get stuff in my name. (maybe wait till after mortgage killed off?)
- Talked to kids about getting a tree, and other shopping things via the BJs coupon book that arrived ?yesterday?
- Called Mortgage. Set into motion getting my name on their paperwork (i wasn't listed on the loan cause last time we refi'ed I wasn't working), set into motion info about death, got info on where to send things ("ATTN: Deceased Processing Team" -- sounds like they do post mortems :D ), penalties will be waived when they happen, and I should ask for payout amount when I'm actually going to do it.
- Looked up what is needed to declare someone dead to Social Security. Can't do it online, has to be in person or on phone.
- Called up Social Security and got put on the line for holding: 1 hour, 30 minute wait, as of 3:40 pm. I didn't believe they would call back, and I had no more calls I could do today, so I put my phone on an external battery and waited.
- Filled out 529 form while waiting on hold.
- Read instructions about filling out 401k beneficiary payout form.
- Sent email to cpa re taking some cash when I rollover Otter's 401k acct
- Sent email to HR person asking if Otter owned any stocks (I know he had some in previous incarnations of the company, just don't know about current.)
- Opened other old mail, finding direct deposit pay stubs and a couple of old bills
- Took delivery of paid-for meds from drugstore.
- Added needed meds to pill pod, got C to put the rest away
- Pulled out eye supplements from my bag and added t hem to today's pill pod, had C put the rest away.
- Call picked up finally at 5:15 pm. I didn't get the guys' name, unfortunately, I was so astonished at not being dropped. I gave him all the info he asked for, and the death had not been reported yet, so he put all the info in and set me up with an appointment to present all the various forms in person on January 16 (boo, so far ahead) in nearby Union. Maybe this won't suck too much.
- Called the cpap machine place at 5:30 pm, only to get the emergency-after-hours. Since it isn't an emergency, used the contact form on their website to ask what to do with the cpap stuff.
- called friend who offered to visit next week to help do re what she would do, left message
- Called oil company, they're closed too. Giving up on phone calls till Tuesday.
To Do On Tuesday Dec 26:
- Call paindoc again
- Call lawyer again. Try for morning.
- Call Oil Company.
- Call old trash company and cancel the account
Things Still To Do
- DECEMBER 27th: Go to town hall, pay sewer bill, bring death cert, talk to folks at (phone number on note page) about putting house/bills in my name only.
- JANUARY 16th: Go to SocSec office and deal with death stuff.
Call paindoc re whether he'd be willing to sign off on handicapped parking forms. (Then DL from DMV and get him to fill out, if he's ok with it.)
- Get onto upstairs computer and finish linking paypal
- Get onto Otter's computer and look for the file he left me.
- Deposit checks received (2017-12-22: 1 to date.)
- Find the lights I bought last month (two small boxes taped together before mailing) (C remembers seeing them, but didn't find them in the fast look he was willing to give before going back to playing Hearthstone for hours)
- Decorate tree
- Figure out what to do about cpap machines (in process)
- Find out wtf to do about the argument with the insurance and the roof
- call oil company about account and payments etc.
- Fill out forms for 401k
- DO NOT LOSE PRINTED FILLED OUT FORMS BEFORE DEATH CERT SHOWS UP!!!!!
Things I need:
Container for current month bills before they are paid.
Container for medical records current year, bills and other
Container for paid bills, current year.
Container for record keeping, current year
Container for medical records specifically for past years.
Containers for record-keeping for past years, to hold paid bills and record keeping.
Container for tax info papers for current year
Container for tax info papers bundled by year for past years.
Container for my frustration and sanity.