khatru: KItty goes yay (Default)
2018-03-28 12:59 pm

I shouldn't have been so optimistic.

The COBRA management company claims that Otter is listed as eligible for COBRA because he was terminated, not deceased. This is causing bloody hell with me trying to elect COBRA.

Furthermore, there will be a new COBRA management company as of next week. I had called them on Monday to ask if it made more sense for me to wait to elect COBRA until they are the company or if I should do it now and the person I spoke to seemed rather flustered and said I should definitely elect it before it got to them and let the system pull things over.

Current COBRA management company has '3-5 business days' for their resolution of issues.

*headdesk**headdesk**headdesk*
khatru: KItty goes yay (Default)
2018-01-30 09:58 pm

Today, I:

Actually did something.

The last few days I've been .... Ok, more like the last week, I've been doing nothing. My sleep cycle has cycled around to me being awake from anywhere from 6-10pm, to 6-8am. C has been poking me both at 11:30 am ish and at 1:30 pm -ish, and even when I sit up and try to get up, I'm falling back asleep. Last night I didn't wake up at all till about 10:30 pm. Tonight I managed to get up around 6pm, and come downstairs cause bills, goddammit. I had asked C to tell me what bills there were, and he did. Yay. There were also some letters from Social Security back on the 25th (yay for inculcating "write teh date received on the envelope, dammit"), one of which was acknowledgement that I was getting the widow's benefit of $255 (which hit my bank account on the 19th, iirc, after the meeting on the 16th), and the other acknowledging upcoming hearing (tho no date set yet.) That was cc'ed to lawyer, too. So yay.

I *have* been getting online and doing wow things overnight, tho, which at least forwards my nominal mindless pleasure.

    So, things I did today:
  • Realized my checkbook and the bank readout were hundreds of dollars off, and so did the arithmetic to resolve my checkbook, finding an egregious error that should never have happened at all. So yeah, $200 off where my checkbook says low, ok. where my checkbook says high, bad.
  • Looked on the life insurance letter for the general customer service number.
  • Paid bills. Still working on tracking what's needed, so can't tell what budget should be yet.
  • Organized what should be done next.


Now, to play wow.

    To Do Tomorrow 20180131
  • Call Abby re chocolate party
  • Call PSEG wrt lack of return envelope, was this asked for, can it be changed?
  • Dig out previous water bill and find out what the difference is for, and call for explanation.
  • Call Verizon and ask for discounts again. 2 yr contract?
  • Call Oil Company - overage mentioned on receipt received 20180119
  • Call SocSec lawyer and see if she wants to meet (partner of no longer eligible lawyer)
  • call tax assessor office 9a-3p Barbara 9087692906
  • Call life insurance folks again. And again.
  • Call xolair pharmacy about bill, thought it was going on credit card.

    ToDo SOON!
  • Call mike the lawyer about the north bergen house deed.
  • Find out if I called Meryll Lynch about angus gone, account come to me?
  • Decide day of month I need to pay bills. (2 days before end of month is not enough time)
  • Contact EZPass and find out how it was being paid and figure out if I need to do anything with it.

    To Do Soon
  • Cannot do until make payment! Waiting on Life Insurance. Call Mortgage, ask for late fee to be removed.
  • Fill out forms for 401k
  • read in detail, evaluate, car/home insurance offer from AAA
  • Get onto Otter's computer and look for the file he left me.
  • Deposit checks received (2017-12-22: 1 to date.)
  • Clear out envelope of Bills Since Death and sort into records, bills, whatever.
  • Figure out what to do about cpap machines (company emailed back, saying donate or whatever) (in process)
  • Find out wtf to do about the argument with the insurance and the roof
  • DO NOT LOSE PRINTED FILLED OUT FORMS BEFORE DEATH CERT SHOWS UP!!!!!


Talk to R about:
    Things I need:
  • Container specifically for estate stuff. - Catbag?
  • Container for my paper notes on phone calls.
  • Container for medical records current year, bills and other
  • Container for keeping records, current year (current back half of step sorter that R got from Staples)
  • Container for medical records specifically for past years.
  • Containers for keeping records for past years, to hold paid bills and record keeping.
  • Container for tax info papers bundled by year for past years.
  • Container for my frustration and sanity. (Research ongoing. Last marble was found in dice bag, perhaps something similar?)
khatru: KItty goes yay (Default)
2017-12-22 01:22 pm

Today, I

    Ok, back to work
  • Opened today's mail which was a bank statement (Yay, info for an account I didn't have info for! Money exists!) and an invoice for the furnace service last monday (nothing owed, yay) and found a few more sympathy cards (thankyou)
  • Called Lawyer again about what to do for next steps. Left message. Sent email.
  • Called paindoc re whether he'd be willing to sign off on handicapped parking forms. (Then DL from DMV and get him to fill out, if he's ok with it.)
  • Called town hall Of COURSE sewer is late. $155.32 to bring it current. Can pay next week. Also, bring death cert, talk to Tax Assessor's office, get stuff in my name. (maybe wait till after mortgage killed off?)
  • Talked to kids about getting a tree, and other shopping things via the BJs coupon book that arrived ?yesterday?
  • Called Mortgage. Set into motion getting my name on their paperwork (i wasn't listed on the loan cause last time we refi'ed I wasn't working), set into motion info about death, got info on where to send things ("ATTN: Deceased Processing Team" -- sounds like they do post mortems :D ), penalties will be waived when they happen, and I should ask for payout amount when I'm actually going to do it.
  • Looked up what is needed to declare someone dead to Social Security. Can't do it online, has to be in person or on phone.
  • Called up Social Security and got put on the line for holding: 1 hour, 30 minute wait, as of 3:40 pm. I didn't believe they would call back, and I had no more calls I could do today, so I put my phone on an external battery and waited.
  • Filled out 529 form while waiting on hold.
  • Read instructions about filling out 401k beneficiary payout form.
  • Sent email to cpa re taking some cash when I rollover Otter's 401k acct
  • Sent email to HR person asking if Otter owned any stocks (I know he had some in previous incarnations of the company, just don't know about current.)
  • Opened other old mail, finding direct deposit pay stubs and a couple of old bills
  • Took delivery of paid-for meds from drugstore.
  • Added needed meds to pill pod, got C to put the rest away
  • Pulled out eye supplements from my bag and added t hem to today's pill pod, had C put the rest away.
  • Call picked up finally at 5:15 pm. I didn't get the guys' name, unfortunately, I was so astonished at not being dropped. I gave him all the info he asked for, and the death had not been reported yet, so he put all the info in and set me up with an appointment to present all the various forms in person on January 16 (boo, so far ahead) in nearby Union. Maybe this won't suck too much.
  • Called the cpap machine place at 5:30 pm, only to get the emergency-after-hours. Since it isn't an emergency, used the contact form on their website to ask what to do with the cpap stuff.
  • called friend who offered to visit next week to help do re what she would do, left message
  • Called oil company, they're closed too. Giving up on phone calls till Tuesday.


    To Do On Tuesday Dec 26:
  • Call paindoc again
  • Call lawyer again. Try for morning.
  • Call Oil Company.
  • Call old trash company and cancel the account



    Things Still To Do
  • DECEMBER 27th: Go to town hall, pay sewer bill, bring death cert, talk to folks at (phone number on note page) about putting house/bills in my name only.
  • JANUARY 16th: Go to SocSec office and deal with death stuff.
  • Call paindoc re whether he'd be willing to sign off on handicapped parking forms. (Then DL from DMV and get him to fill out, if he's ok with it.)
  • Get onto upstairs computer and finish linking paypal
  • Get onto Otter's computer and look for the file he left me.
  • Deposit checks received (2017-12-22: 1 to date.)
  • Find the lights I bought last month (two small boxes taped together before mailing) (C remembers seeing them, but didn't find them in the fast look he was willing to give before going back to playing Hearthstone for hours)
  • Decorate tree
  • Figure out what to do about cpap machines (in process)
  • Find out wtf to do about the argument with the insurance and the roof
  • call oil company about account and payments etc.
  • Fill out forms for 401k
  • DO NOT LOSE PRINTED FILLED OUT FORMS BEFORE DEATH CERT SHOWS UP!!!!!



Things I need:
Container for current month bills before they are paid.
Container for medical records current year, bills and other
Container for paid bills, current year.
Container for record keeping, current year
Container for medical records specifically for past years.
Containers for record-keeping for past years, to hold paid bills and record keeping.
Container for tax info papers for current year
Container for tax info papers bundled by year for past years.
Container for my frustration and sanity.